Re: 22 year old guy having sex with a 16 year old girl
But you can be mature enough to see past your hormones and groinal urges to ask if this person is someone who will support you emotionally beyond your little tryst.
And I can tell you point blank the vast majority of young teen women and men are not capable of getting to that point, though they may think they can, simply because of how turbulent puberty is for everyone. Or nigh everyone.
How many friends did I have sleep with a guy then come bawling to me 'I thought he'd love me if I did?' Yeah, quite a few. And you know, I place a hefty amount of blame on the girl, because she didn't stop to think past anything more than her hormones and a hormone-glazed vision of what the boy would do if she gave it up.
No, you are not mature enough until you can think past basic biology. Animals can have sex too, that's nothing special, but if you're after something longer than that (and if not, that's fine) then you need to wait until your head can think clearly about what you're going into.
Again, if you're just after a one night stand, and you consent, while the age difference might be creepy, that's your perogative in my book. Live and fuck up and learn. That's what life is about.
Originally posted by Karinya
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And I can tell you point blank the vast majority of young teen women and men are not capable of getting to that point, though they may think they can, simply because of how turbulent puberty is for everyone. Or nigh everyone.
How many friends did I have sleep with a guy then come bawling to me 'I thought he'd love me if I did?' Yeah, quite a few. And you know, I place a hefty amount of blame on the girl, because she didn't stop to think past anything more than her hormones and a hormone-glazed vision of what the boy would do if she gave it up.
No, you are not mature enough until you can think past basic biology. Animals can have sex too, that's nothing special, but if you're after something longer than that (and if not, that's fine) then you need to wait until your head can think clearly about what you're going into.
Again, if you're just after a one night stand, and you consent, while the age difference might be creepy, that's your perogative in my book. Live and fuck up and learn. That's what life is about.
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