What are your 'rules' for exp?

[Nuriko]

I agree about tanking and saying to zone ... if the tank says zone, you ZONE! As a tank, I won't have time to argue the case with you ... especially not if I'm solo tanking in Yuhtunga on WAR/NIN.

[Firewind]

As a WHM I won't zone the second the Tank says zone. Everyone is much more likely to get out alive if I stay behind to paralyze the mob and keep the tank healed until it's just me and the tank left. Then I will leave so the tank can. i do this because I'm pretty tired of the tank getting killed then the party getting cut down while they flee to the zone.

As a WHM there are also times where I am perfectly willing to sacrifice myself to save your exp. If a gob just bomb tossed the party into the red i will use Benediction. Yes it will likely kill me but it will also let you finish off the mob or give you all enough time to zone. I always have my HP set as close to the camp as possible so HPing means that you only need to wait for me to run back from the Outpost or Choco in from the nearby town which will take 2 mins at most.