you can join SurvivorsOfArkasia if you want. We're starting to get more members, and I really want to put together garrison events and things. We USUALLY do ENM's on Fridays if you want to participate in those, and you can usually always find help. These people have been around since I started the game (year and a half ago about) and I don't see any signs of quitting anytime shortly.
If you are interested, look at the site. I just created it about a month ago to increase interaction, but feel free to take a look:
http://www.avidgamers.com/wofd