05-26-2006, 08:48 PM | #77 (permalink) |
| Junior Member Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 127 Style: Thanks: 0 Thanked 0x in 0 Posts Gil: 1,636 Bank: 0 Total Gil: 1,636 Donate | Re: My own husband blacklisted me -.- | Originally Posted by Aksannyi | Wow, everyone, I totally did not intend to incite a flame war, nor did I come here for marital advice. Really, this whole thing is qutie funny to me, that my own husband could actually b-list me.
Once more, on the "F*** you's" ... we tease each other, we say dumb things. "You're doing it wrong." "No, I'm not." "Yes you are, dummy" "FU man!" And usually it ends in laughter because we can get silly like that.
My husband and I are not going to get a divorce. Never did I mention anywhere that we would be. Whoever brought that up, stop. And everyone else please stop saying things like that, too. We're fine. He already removed me from his list.
Also, thanks to the people sticking up for me because I (OMG!) play a game and have a kid. (Two, actually.) If my entire existence in this life were "wife" and "mom," I think I'd kill myself. Not that I don't love my family, mind you, but just that you can't only define yourself by things in such a way.
Anyway, it's over. My husband and I are FINE. I repeat, my husband and I are FINE. It was just something I thought I'd share because I thought it was funny! I didn't mean to spark a huge debate about why married people who argue should get divorced or some stupid crap.
So seriously, everyone, LIGHTEN UP. And I hate to sound like a bitch, but please stop giving me marital advice. That's not what I came here for. I came to share a story that I thought was funny, and you guys ran it in a totally opposite direction. Please just leave it as it is, lighthearted story of a silly argument. | I dont know whats more sad...How you found it funny that he got mad enough to blist you...Or that he acctually did. |
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