Like my husband posted , if its a real issue to have GF and sex and FF then you should try to find someone who also enjoys those same interests, if you cant then exercise self control and try to balance playing with goin out to find the special someone ( or one night stand,, whatever) if not having a social life because you are devoted to final fantasy is aproblem for you then set days and times when you will play and days and times when you will venture into the real world and try to stick to it
if that doesnt work , then i dunno lol