personally i think it's cause we arent so strung up with making ppl we play with daily think we're "cool" or uber or w/e.
Hell if it starts a flame war, it'll bring some life to this board, so be warned for my next comment.
Killing Ifrit and Allakhazam Server forums are for trolls who cant express their opinions by sheer virtue of their skills, so they are instead forced to link to a bunch of heroic acts not completed by themselves, in the hopes that this evidence will prove the facts that they typed out, in hopes that someone other than their mothers would give a crud that they exist. It's just a pitiful existence of life where your only enjoyment is a game that can suck the life out of anyone (even those who "had" one before they hit lvl 30, such as myself ;

and going to forums for your server to discuss the latest scams.
"Omg! ASDF is a scammer! He stole my Scorp Harness +1!" "OMG" such and such. I get so sick of server specific forums and all their drama. They need to save that kind of shyte for their unbalanced, hotheaded and elitist linkshells and let those that came to the forum to communicate do so.
Fudge those guys, they can forum swim with other ppl who wouldnt give 5 shits if they saw them in-game, let alone party with ppl who constantly triumph their menial victories or bitch about their hours of LFG. I myself will continue to ignore the pitiful whines of those that are half the reason why I dont feel like playing this game half of the time.
I said it, its done. They dont have the moxie to do anything since no one comes to our boards any way
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Now that I got that rant out of me, I can say that the easiest way for us to keep in touch is to have a common linkshell or something of that ilk. Possibly a static or something similar to that. We went over this b4 but never went through with it. Maybe its time we did?